The mere thought of engaging in phone sex is a daunting task for a lot of people. There are many worries and uncertainties that go hand-in-hand with it.

What if I get caught? What if I end up saying the wrong things at the wrong time? What if I mess up?

We understand that having phone sex is not for the faint-hearted. One must have an open-mind and a clear perspective on sex to be able to carry out the act well.

One of the major obstacles is agonizing over the idea that you’ll be bad at it; or that you won’t be creative and imaginative enough.

Perhaps, you’re also worried that you’ll run out of dirty words and sexy things to say and your phone sex partner might end up thinking that you’re a waste of time.

Do you want to have phone sex like a pro and reach the peak of excitement?

And you might also want to impress your phone sex partner by delivering the most intense and mind-blowing experience. Allow us to show you how.

 

Tips for the Best Phone Sex Experience

And so you’ve finally made up your mind to call the adult lines for phone sex. If you’re ready for it, you might as well give it your all. Don’t do it halfheartedly. Instead, condition your mind and body for what lies ahead. Here are some tips;

 

Create the right mood and setting

Think about the things that get you in the mood for sex and start the preparation. Most women feel sexy by wearing skimpy lingerie, spraying on some lightly scented perfume, infusing their favorite essential oil in the room or lighting some scented candles, or dimming down the lights.

Men, on the other hand, get turned on by watching porn, looking at sexy pictures of women, getting naked under the sheets, or using sex toys.

Knowing what gets you in the mood for an intimate love-making session will make it easier for you to create the right mood and setting.

What makes this important? Having the right atmosphere for phone sex can help you sustain the mood (and your arousal), and contributes to a complete and more pleasurable experience.

 

Play with your imagination

What’s in your imagination is a crucial element in phone sex. However, you need to organize your thoughts property so you can focus on only one thing.

Having a lot of things in your mind can cause a great deal of distraction and might inhibit you from using your imagination in the right way.

Start by exploring your naughty fantasies and wildest sexual dreams. What is your dirtiest sexual fantasy? Is it having sex on the beach, in a cramped car, or in a stranger’s bedroom?

Think of how you want to be touched and treated when having sex. Then imagine one specific fantasy that you can imagine and play with. This will enable you to come up with a role-playing phone sex that focuses on a specific detail.

For example; you and your phone sex partner can play the role of a boss and an employee having some office quickie on top of a conference table; or a doctor and a nurse pleasuring each other on a hospital bed.

 

 

Touch yourself and your most sensitive parts

Start pleasuring yourself by touching your body’s erogenous zones. Touching your most sensitive spots will get you in the mood for a wild night of phone sex and can stimulate full arousal.

So relax your body, lie in a comfortable position, loosen up, and play with your body’s sensitive zones. Once you feel the arousal coming, just keep going until you reach the peak of sexual excitement.

 

Get generous with the details

Be verbal about your pleasure and get on with the details. Tell your phone sex partner how you’re touching yourself, describe the sensation, and what you want to happen next.

Don’t hesitate about talking dirty. Verbalize what you’re imagining. And ask your phone sex partner to do things for you while you’re playing with your imagination.

 

Moan, breathe, sigh, and groan

Express your pleasure by moaning, breathing heavily, or by groaning gently. It’s not necessary to talk the whole time or to keep on describing things in full detail if you’re overwhelmed with pleasure and you’re at the peak of your excitement.

So it’s perfectly acceptable to pause for a moment to concentrate on pleasuring yourself then express your sexual elation by moaning.

Suppressed screams, deep sighs, and begging for more can also turn your partner on. Keep in mind that audible sounds of delight can effectively communicate your urge to cum without necessarily saying the words out loud.

Therefore, if you find yourself at a loss for words, feel free to moan, breathe, sigh, and gently scream.

 

Beg for your partner to cum or to reach orgasm with you

If you feel an orgasm coming, beg for your partner to cum as well. This can set the moment on fire and heighten up the pleasure for both of you.

Telling your phone sex partner to “please cum with me”, “cum for me” or “give it to me” can elevate their arousal and enable them to claim the prize.

 

 

Final Advice

One important thing to keep in mind to have the best phone sex experience is to stimulate your self the right way. How? There are many things you can do such as using sex toys, lubes, pleasure enhancers, and improvised sensory stimulators.